
Sunday, March 30, 2008
Croissant and a little Blue Box

Last Night
These two film critics are hilarious and are extremely insightful. Anyway, we ended up skipping the movie and went over to Amy's place to meet some of her college friends. Michael and I brought cannolis and we had a good time playing some games and just chatting. Plus, I finally got Amy to sing, which I have been pestering her to do ever since I found out she used to do a lot of musical theatre. Turns out the girl has a really pretty voice, don't know why she is so shy when she knows she can work that song out right.
Saturday, March 29, 2008
You Had To Burn
Madonna / The Power Of Good-Bye
This is one of my favorite songs off of Madonna's Ray Of Light album. I've been in Madonna mode every since her latest single was released (4 Minutes). Anyway, the song is beautiful and moving and she looks breathe-taking in the video. Enjoy :)
Bad Bad Blogger
Courbet - Origins of the World - 1886


Eakins - The Swimming Hole - 1885
Thursday, March 20, 2008
Avenue Q

Saturday, March 15, 2008
All Hail the Princess Of Pop!
Kylie Minogue / Wow
She is like a shot of sunshine right when you need it most. I will never understand why America can not see what the rest of the world can. Kylie is the defintion of Pop, Sexy, and Cool. As they used to say back when, she is the living end.
You, Me, & Friendly's
When we got back home I had received and e-mail from a good friend who I thought had dropped out of existence. It if funny how the universe works. Just a few days ago I received another e-mail from my High School best friend and now my old work-mate and accomplice in crime was saying hey after at least three months of no communication. Now all I need to do is have an accidental run in with old pal Ina May to make things really weird and complete.
p.s. can I just say shameful I feel for liking Miley Cyrus's (Hannah Montana) song See You Again. It sounds so 80's I Wear My Sunglasses At Night that I can't stop listening to it....scary!!!!
Unite

• I want history to remember me not just as the first black woman to be elected to Congress, not as the first black woman to have made a bid for the presidency of the United States, but as a black woman who lived in the 20th century and dared to be herself.
• I’ve always met more discrimination being a woman than being black.
• My God, what do we want? What does any human being want? Take away an accident of pigmentation of a thin layer of our outer skin and there is no difference between me and anyone else. All we want is for that trivial difference to make no difference.
• Racism is so universal in this country, so widespread and deep seated, that it is invisible because it is so normal.
• We Americans have a chance to become someday a nation in which all racial stocks and classes can exist in their own self-hoods, but meet on a basis of respect and equality and live together, socially, economically, and politically.
• In the end anti-black, anti-female, and all forms of discrimination are equivalent to the same thing - anti-humanism.
Source: PBS.org
Friday, March 14, 2008
Say It Ain't So...

Clinton and her campaign are so racist!!
Ms. Ferraro's comment which taken at face value is a racially charged statement, but placed back into the context in which Ferraro was actually speaking about the issue of racism becomes invalid to any rational mind.
“I think what America feels about a woman becoming president takes a very secondary place to Obama’s campaign - to a kind of campaign that it would be hard for anyone to run against,” she said. “For one thing, you have the press, which has been uniquely hard on her. It’s been a very sexist media. Some just don’t like her. The others have gotten caught up in the Obama campaign.
“If Obama was a white man, he would not be in this position,” she continued. “And if he was a woman (of any color) he would not be in this position. He happens to be very lucky to be who he is. And the country is caught up in the concept.” ~Geraldine Ferraro, March 7, 2008
This was the quote that set the whole thing off. Ferraro was giving a speech at Torrance Cultural Center in Torrance CA. Why is this woman racist, or the comment is made racist? Bringing up the legitimate issue of race in terms of Senator Obama's success is automatically racist? Does America thing that racism is so far behind us that to suggest that some one's race may play into a persons electability is automatically racist. Yet when people credit Clinton and her support from women this is a non-issue, as if Senator Clinton's gender had nothing to do with it.
If Barack Obama was a white man do you think he would get the large margin of the African-American vote in southern states over Hillary Clinton, which as a proven track record of support for civil rights and issues concerning African-Americans? This is not to say that support for Obama is solely based on his race, but you can not deny that it is an advantage in his favor. Obama has many great qualities. He does inspire and gives a sense of hope and his politics and stances on issues such as Health Care and the war in Iraq are almost mirror images of his democratic rival. Both candidates if elected would make history, so the fact that he is a bi-racial, but for this country's need a black man not be a driving force in his campaign? This is one of the problems within this country, we are not above racism or living in a post-racial society because of this any thing can be turned into a negative racial slur. This is something that again favors Barack Obama and why many people think he would do well in the general election. The Republicans would not have as much fire because they would run the risk of being called racist. So questions about is policies and political background would be left untouched, while Clinton would be fodder for the Republican attack machine. Sexism and sexist views which have been prevalent through Senator Clinton's campaign are never seriously addressed simple because sexism is still acceptable then a perceived racism.
What about the issue of sexism/racism when Jesse Jackson, stomping for Obama in New Hampshire called African-American congressmen "Uncle Toms" for supporting Clinton's campaign over their racial brother. Is this not a racially charged statement? Can not these men vote for whom they think is the most appropriate candidate and not solely on the sharing of a perceived racial identity? How about when gospel singer/pastor McClurkin was brought onto Obama's campaign in the south to help suede black voters away from Clinton? McClurkin who is an out spoken homophobe and as publicly stated that "the gays" want to murder the children of America, where is the big out cry? Was this not a typical tactic to use homophobia to get the black vote that helped G.W.B. win in the south? We have Obama endorsed by Minister Farakan a man that is visceral in his anti-semitism and is admired by Obama's spiritual advisor, none of this seems to be a major concern to any one.
Is the double standard of it all becoming clear to any one yet?? WAKE UP AMERICA!!!
I also want to address Keith Olbermann's "special comment" on his cable news show. I am fan of Mr. Olbermann but recently his obvious bias for Obama and against Clinton has turned me off completely. For once I would like to just get the news without the presenters opinion whether liberal or conservative. Olbermann is quickly becoming the Bill O'Reily of the left, which in my opinion is a sad day. Instead of being a man of conviction he is turning into the very think he hates the most a ring leader in a dog and pony show. Big mouths shooting opinions without any true balance or evidence is bad no matter how closely those opinions may align with your own.
Wednesday, March 12, 2008
The New Donna Summer
Kelly Rowland / Work (Freemasons Remix)
This song is pretty hot and I have noticed in Kelly's last video for "Like This" that she resembled the great disco queen Donna Summer this clip just clenches it for me.
Tuesday, March 11, 2008
Saturday, March 8, 2008
Words of Wisdom from the Queen

Pure Light
After my last post I felt compelled to balance the hate and darkness with the only thing that can overpower it, light and love. So here is that light and love manifested in the form of the incomparable and talented Cyndi Lauper singing "True Colors."
May you be open to the light and enjoy :)
Hate with a Smile
The hate of middle America:
Sally Kern a representative of the state of Oklahoma talking about the dangers and the destructiveness in the spread of the "gay life-style." I think my favorite part of her speech is when she says she doesn't hate and isn't any type of gay basher, but she feels that gays are the last nail hammering into America's coffin. She also goes on to state that I being a gay man is more dangerous to this country than terrorists that attacked on 9/11. Sally Kern, you with your hate speech that springs forth from your lips are no different then those terrorists that wish to destroy America's freedom. You are no different then Hitler when he used the Jews as the sacrificial goat to bring about his fascist rule in Germany. You, Sally Kern are a disgrace and disgust me and you Sally Kern is the true danger to America and it's legacy of freedom.
Wednesday, March 5, 2008
Happy Birthday 2 U

The Comeback

Tuesday, March 4, 2008
Speaking of funny...

Pretty Funny
From the Big Gay Sketch Show
Christine Ebersole plays Edie Beal in the Broadway production of Grey Gardens which was based on the documentary of the same name about little Edie and her mother. This was a pretty hilarious spoof of both Grey Gardens and Extreme Makeover. Mrs. Ebersole does a knock out job as Edie. Her incarnation as the cult figure is very astonishing and the skit is hilarious. Enjoy :)
Rainy Tuesday
I sent out about five packages to various places today and passed an old co-worker from my last job while I was out running errands. I noticed her and mentioned it to Michael but I felt no desire to call out to her and tell her what I thought about her since I no longer did think about her, which was a nice thing to realize. She was nothing more then a faded apparition of an annoyance I once had in a past life. It is nice to be able to move on.
I just woke up from a three hour nap. Michael has been watching the show Angel since he has been home from work and the non-stop marathon was starting to wear thin on me. I think I've convinced him to turn off Angel in favor of watching La Vie En Rose to give me a break from the Buffy spin-off for a while. Until then I am going to try to lift some of the gloom with some music. Cheerio!
Monday, March 3, 2008
Sunday, March 2, 2008
Blank This! (The Match Game)


Saturday, March 1, 2008
On a lighter note...
Tragic
Ellen DeGeneres speaking on the tragic death of a young boy.
This speaks so well to what I am reading in a book about America and the overwhelming need to appear masculine and the marginalization of any thing that threatens American masculinity. My thoughts and prayers go out to the families affected by this horrible event.
Seventh Tree

A&E Happiness
Cologne Cerrone Houdini
A Message from Senator Clinton

Let me tell you what I have been telling voters across America. I am fully committed to the fair and equal treatment of LGBT Americans. For seven long years, the Bush Administration has tried to divide us - only seeing people who matter to them. It's been a government of the few, by the few, and for the few. And no community has been more invisible to this administration than the LGBT community.
I will change that. The best evidence of what I will do as President is what I have already done.
* I am proud that as Chair of the Senate Democratic Steering and Outreach Committee in 2006, I worked closely with LBGT community to develop a smart strategy that defeated the Federal Marriage Amendment. I am proud of fighting the FMA as divisive wedge politics at its worst.
* I am proud to be a co-sponsor of the Employment Non-Discrimination Act, the Matthew Shepard Local Law Enforcement Hate Crimes Prevention Act, and the Domestic Partnership Benefits and Obligation Act which would grant the same benefits (including health insurance) to domestic partners of federal employees that are currently offered to employees’ legal spouses.
* I am proud to have authored the Early Treatment for HIV Act, which expands access to vital treatment options for low-income individuals living with HIV, and fought to fully fund the Ryan White CARE Act.
* I am proud that I hired a National Director of LGBT Outreach within a month of announcing my candidacy for President and to have openly gay and lesbian staffers serving at all levels of my campaign.
* I am proud to have a National LGBT Steering Committee of over 130 that includes openly LGBT elected officials, Board members and opinion leaders on issues ranging from transgender rights, to HIV/AIDS, to “Don’t Ask Don’t Tell”.
* I am proud to have marched in Gay Pride parades as both First Lady and as Senator and to have spoken in front of so many LGBT audiences ranging from the Human Rights Campaign, Empire State Pride Agenda, the Hetrick Martin Institute, PFLAG (Parents, Families, and Friends of Lesbians and Gays), GMHC (Gay Men’s Health Crisis), and the American Foundation for AIDS Research.
* I am proud to have fought Republican efforts to demonize and marginalize the LGBT community, and I will continue to do that as President.
We have so much work to do. When I am President, we will work together to make sure that all Americans in committed relationships have equal benefits and that nothing stands in the way of loving couples who want to adopt children in need. We're going to expand our federal hate crimes legislation and pass the Employment Non-Discrimination Act and assure that they are both fully inclusive of all people. And finally, we will put an end to the failed policy of Don't Ask, Don't Tell. Courage, honor, patriotism and sacrifice – the traits that define our men and women in uniform – have nothing to do with sexual orientation.
My father was a conservative Republican, who held very traditional views for much of his life. Yet in his last years, it was a gay couple who lived next door who provided much of the compassion and comfort he and my mother needed as he grew ill. And it was that same neighbor who held his hand as he died. If my father can move, America can move.
To each and every LGBT American, I say this. You have done so much to help this country understand your lives by simply being open and honest about who you are and living your lives with dignity. Thank you for your courage. It is time that we recognize your hard work. I know that this country is ready for changes in the law that reflect the evolution in our hearts.
America deserves a President who appeals to the best in each of us, not the worst; a President who values and respects all Americans and treats all Americans equally no matter who they are or who they love. I want to be that President. I want to be your President.
Source: HillaryClinton.com
Musicals are the Bomb!

Girl Power (Viacom can Suck It)
I already posted this clip of Tina Fey earlier this week, but I noticed that it was removed from YouTube. Most likely because Viacom is very protective of their products and hates the notion of ideas being available for free. So, I reposted it with a new video. I have to say I was really happy to see Tina Fey speak out for Senator Clinton since the media and major news outlets have pretty much removed even a farce of neutrality and have been giving Senator Obama a free ride. I like Obama, but I voted for Clinton mainly because in the fucked up world we are currently living in (hats off to you again George W.) and the amount of issues America faces on the international scene (Kosovo, Iraq, Iran, N. Korea, the rise of China as a super power). I feel it is imperative that we have someone in office leading the country that actually has foreign policy experience. Bush was elected with no foreign policy experience and look at the situation this country is in now. Also, I get the sense that Obama feels that he himself is unstoppable and it is that same cult of personality and ego that we have seen in Bush over the last eight years. I would hate to have similar mistakes repeated because the new Actor for America is not seasoned enough to know how to navigate this country through the complex waters of international relations. So once again here is the amazingly talented and funny Tina Fey from 30 Rock proclaiming that "Bitch is the new Black!"
Ms. Janet

Degas

The View
One of the things I have always respected about John McCain was his stance on torture. He was one of the only well known Republicans in Washington to stand up like any decent person that values human life should and state that torture is unacceptable any time any where. That seems to have changed now with the white house closer in his grasp. For me what the article comes down to his connection to a lobbyist and not that they may have had an extra marital affair but how that lobbyist may have using her familiarity with McCain may have shaped his policy. So, yes Mrs. Hasselbeck attacks the Times ethics and rightly so for printing out an erroneous article with no clear evidence or direction but not to question the ethics of McCain boggles my mind.
Just Because
All Hail the Princess Of Pop!
Does it get any better then this? She can do no wrong!! One of my favorite songs of the year so far. Enjoy and let the sonic bubble gum prefection that is Kylie wash over you :)
Warning Wii's May Be Dangerous to your Relationship!

Blogging as Procrastination
Family Drama

Graffiti to High Art
Opinions are like assholes...
P.s. This is going to be a branch off of my first blog You Can Suck It. I felt the title though fitting to my personality was somewhat misleading. So, I have revamped and renamed my blog The Dandy Flâneur which has an air of culture to it. For those of you not aware of French terms the Dandy was what our modern metro-sexual would be. A man that is well versed in fashion and trends and it all about image and being seen, while the Flâneur was someone who understood society and critiqued it in satirical and maybe a even a little pessimistic way. On that note I give you my latest and hopefully finally incarnation of my blog The Dandy Flâneur.